Big Sister, Patroness of Youth and Purity, Converted Her Murder
St. Maria Goretti
The family was left even more destitute following Luigi’s tragic death from malaria. The death of her father brought a newfound strength out of Maria, who comforted her sorrowing mother, and put her faith in God’s loving providence. She immediately stepped up in taking more responsibilities around the house. Her sacrifices and deep love of God paved the way for her to receive Holy Communion in 1902, where the priest preached the message, “Purity at all costs.” This was a lesson Maria absorbed and would even die for just a few months later.
“Yes, I too, for the love of Jesus, forgive him…and I want him to be with me in Paradise.”
In June of that year, the nearly twenty-year-old Alessandro Serenelli, a man treated by Maria as an older brother, had repeatedly made advances towards her. Recognizing his malicious intent, Maria rejected him and attempted to avoid him as much as possible. She refrained from telling anyone that he had threatened her life because she was afraid of bringing more grief to her mother. On July 5th, 1902, Alessandro aggressively and violently demanded her to give in to him. She fought back with every fiber of her being, protecting her own purity but also that of Alessandro. In his fury, he stabbed her with a nine-inch blade fourteen times. When she was discovered, she was brought the hospital where she lay in excruciating agony for twenty hours. The priest who gave her First Communion came to give her Viaticum, and asked her if she forgave Alessandro. She said,”Yes, I too, for the love of Jesus, forgive him…and I want him to be with me in Paradise…May God forgive him, because I already have forgiven him.” She died on July 6th, 1902.
Alessandro was sentenced to thirty years in prison. The first eight years were completely devoid of remorse for the murder he committed. But God broke through the hardness of his heart one night when Maria appeared in a dream, in a field of flowers, holding fourteen white lilies to represent her fourteen stab wounds. She told Alessandro that she forgave him. From that moment on, he was completely repentant, and converted to a life of holiness. Touched by her radiant charity, he later reflected, “I still have impressed upon my heart her words of rebuke and of pardon. She prayed for me, she interceded for her murderer”. He eventually became a Franciscan lay brother. In 1937, Maria’s mother was inspired by the example of her daughter who was so willing to extend her forgiveness to her murderer. She not only forgave Alessandro, but in another heroic act of forgiveness, took him in as a son. The two were present together at Maria’s canonization in 1950.
Feast Day: July 6